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what really matters is not what life throws at you but how you handle it<3
I cherish relationships, and I value trust. Am simple but complicated to a certain extent. Can be considered an extrovert at surface level.My happiness comes from blessings, and creating a beautiful family is my dream. ♥
This is the most unique one I've seen, please yes.
| 1) Put your iTunes on shuffle. Give me the first 6 songs that pop up. |
| 2) If you could meet anyone on this earth, who would it be? |
| 3) Grab the book nearest to you, turn to page 23, give me line 17. |
| 4) What do you think about most? |
| 5) Ever had a poem or song written about you? |
| 6) Do you have any strange phobias? |
| 7) What's your religion? |
| 8) If you are outside, what are you most likely doing? |
| 9) Simple but extremely complex. Favorite band? |
| 10) What was the last lie you told? |
| 11) Do you believe in karma? |
| 12) What does your URL mean? |
| 13) What is your greatest weakness; your greatest strength? |
| 14) Who is your celebrity crush? |
| 15) How do you vent your anger? |
| 16) Do you have a collection of anything? |
| 17) Are you happy with the person you've become? |
| 18) What's a sound you hate; sound you love? |
| 19) What's your biggest "what if"? |
| 20) Do you believe in ghosts? How about aliens? |
| 21) Stick your right arm out; what do you touch first? Do the same with your left arm. |
| 22) Smell the air. What do you smell? |
| 23) What's the worst place you have ever been to? |
| 24) Most attractive singer/s of your opposite gender? |
| 25) To you, what is the meaning of life? |
| 26) Do you drive? If so, have you ever crashed? |
| 27) What was the last movie you saw? |
| 28) What's the worst injury you've ever had? |
| 29) Do you have any obsessions right now? |
| 30) Ever had a rumor spread about you? |
| 31) Do you tend to hold grudges against people who have done you wrong? |
| 32) What is your astrological sign? |
| 33) What's the last thing you purchased? |
| 34) Love or lust? |
| 35) In a relationship? |
| 36) How many relationships have you had? |
| 37) What is your secret weapon to get someone to like you? |
| 38) Where is your best friend? |
| 39) What were you doing last night at 12 AM? |
| 40) Are you the kind of friend you would want to have as a friend? |
| 41) You are walking down the street on your way to work. There is a dog drowning in the canal on the side of the street. Your boss has told you if you are late one more time you get fired. What do you do? |
| 42) You are at the doctor’s office and she has just informed you that you have approximately one month to live. a) Do you tell anyone/everyone you are going to die? b) What do you do with your remaining days? c) Would you be afraid? |
| 43) What's a song that always makes you happy when you hear it? |
| 44) In your opinion, what makes a great relationship? |
| 45) How can I win your heart? |
| 46) Can insanity bring on more creativity? |
| 47) What is the single best decision you have made in your life so far? |
| 48) What would you want to be written on your tombstone? |
| 49) Give me the first thing that comes to mind when you hear the word "heart." |
| 50) Basic question; what's your favorite color/colors? |
| 51) What is your current desktop picture? |
| 52) If you could press a button and make anyone in the world instantaneously explode, who would it be? |
| 53) What would be a question you'd be afraid to tell the truth on? |
| 54) You accidentally eat some radioactive vegetables. They were good, and what's even cooler is that they endow you with the super-power of your choice! What is that power? |
| 55) You can re-live any point of time in your life. The time-span can only be a half-hour, though. What half-hour of your past would you like to experience again? |
| 56) You can erase any horrible experience from your past. What will it be? |
| 57) You have the opportunity to sleep with the music-celebrity of your choice. Who would it be? |
| 58) You just got a free plane ticket to anywhere. You have to depart right now. Where are you gonna go? |
| 59) Ever been on a plane? |
| 60) Give me your top 5 hottest celebrities. |
| Please do it! |
Steve Maraboli, Unapologetically You: Reflections on Life and the Human Experience
Keep this one in your back pocket for the next time someone acts like an ass and then tells you they’ve been through a lot of stuff. Respectful and yet still firmly keeping respect for yourself.
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Day 3 of #8week fitness project!
So today is the third day of the #8week fitness project that i am embarking on! My recommended calorie intake is 1600 a day.
Diet for the day
Had a cheat snack of milo and condensed milk toast (360 calories)
3 caramel biscuits (100 calories)
2 cups of milk tea (400 calories)
1 rockmelon (100calories)
half bowl of wanton mee (200 calories)
300ml of sugarcane juice (150 calories)
1.8litres of water
rice with baked pork(400 calories)
total: 1710 calories
exceeded by 110 calories, which means i need to make up for it tomorrow by consuming less!
Exercise
dance workout routine(30minutes)
35 squats
**on a side note, i am gonna start on my teatox tonight so hoping for results!
#nics8weekfitnessproj
does anyone else ever have pregnant dreams because that shit is scary you wake up in a cold sweat like who’S TAKING CARE OF MY KID before you remember that there is no kid thank the lord
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Knowing myself further
1. Who am I really?
I am a beautiful, sexy woman who looks at life as a journey, interesting and filled with new experiences and it is all about seizing the day and whatever opportunities that interest me while walking with God and carrying out an action or plan that makes me feel at peace.
I seek his will in all what i do as he leads me to grow into the beautiful and captivating woman that he wants me to be
2. What worries me most about the future?
That i wont be married, i guess i seek companionship and desire to work together and journey together and support and be supported, love and be loved.
3. If this were the last day of my life, would I want to do what I am about to do today?
Yes, i would. I would still spend my day with my parents and playing with Happy, study and memorise because that is what my job is as a student is at the moment.
4. What am I really scared of?
Sudden shocks, loud thunder, creepy crawlies, screeching noises, fear of rejection
5. Am I holding on to something I need to let go of?
Yes i am, i am currently still holding onto to this attachment with my close friend due to our ties, but i am in the process of letting go of it. it is a constant surrender each day not to text or meet with him.
6. If not now, then when?
Not sure exactly, but yeah i definitely will by 17th may when i leave for boston.
7. What matters most in my life?
Family, dog, time with friends, mass and time spent with God esp in adoration and meditation.
8. What am I doing about the things that matter most in my life?
I am studying to do well( a B+ for all mods except math), reaching out to others by messages, time spent to ask them out for coffee, staying home on sundays and saturday evenings,
9. What do I matter?
As a friend, a confidante
10. Have I done anything lately worth remembering?
no
11. Have I made someone smile today?
Yes, my dad when i kissed his cheek.
12. What have I given up on?
my math mod in terms of scoring an A.
13. When did I last push the boundaries of my comfort zone?
A month ago, i applied to go for summer exchange, went through a lot of opposition from my parents and what not, but thankfully God paved the way
14. If I had to instill one piece of advice in a newborn baby’s mind, what advice would I give?
To hold your hands wide open and appreciate everything that comes, remembering that every person is meant to be cherished and loved but never possessed.
15. What small act of kindness was I once shown that I will never forget?
When Nathaniel lent me $1.80 for my transport back home frm tampines when i was dead broke. and when praise treated me to dinner when i didnt have enough.
16. How shall I live, knowing I will die?
I shall live to bring others to experience his love through community, through acts of kindness for my family, especially my sister and reaching out to others.
17. What do I need to change about myself?
My stubborn attitude, my weak willpower to resist temptation.
18. Is it more important to love or be loved?
It is to love( that is the model answer) but to be loved is the best feeling and i seek that from God.
19. How many of my friends would I trust with my life?
8 of my friends
20. Who has had the greatest impact on my life?
Brandon. He has challenged me in so many ways some are annoying tho,
21. Would I break the law to save a loved one?
Yes i will. but i will try to get out of it.
22. Would I steal to feed a starving child?
Yes i will.
23. What do I want most in life?
The feeling of being around a table with food surrounded by the fellowship of loved ones and friends.
24. What is life calling of me?
To give my best in all that i am called to do, to listen and hold others and encourage them. To be my true authentic self, however weird that is.
25. Which is worse: failing or never trying?
Never trying. even tho there are consequences to face.
26. If I try to fail, and succeed, which have I done?
I have succeeded in failing.
27. What’s the one thing I’d like others to remember about me at the end of my life?
That i brought others joy, and showed them love.
28. Does it really matter what others think about me?
Yes and now no longer. at least im trying not to care anymore.
29. To what degree have I actually controlled the course my life has taken?
I have controlled it to a small extent, in a sense by studying and working for my studies. but not really ever since SOCL.
30. When it’s all said and done, will I have said more than I’ve done?
For now, yes. which is why i am working towards actions more than words.
As of 26th april 2014
Thermochromic table by Jay Watson
imagine banging someone on that table
imagine being home alone and seeing imprints on that table
noooooo stop
Imagine having a friend sit at that table for a long while, but when they get up there’s no imprints at all.
What if you got up after trying to console a crying friend, and found that you had no imprints… and they were crying because they missed you?
aaaah it was a cool table now it’s a horror/drama story
American Horror Story 4 : The Table
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1. Don’t date a boy who cancels plans last minute. Especially if he’s canceling for someone else. You are not a second choice. You are not a third choice. You are a first choice or you are nothing to him.
Do you understand me, baby? You are worth so much more than that, don’t let him push you around.
2. If he’s rude to you, drop him. I don’t care how many times he says “just kidding” or “baby, I didn’t mean it” you keep your head up, your shoulders straight, your chin high and you demand to be treated as the goddess you are.
3. If he doesn’t hold your hand in front of his friends or wrap his arms around you when you’re with his family then he isn’t worth it. Date someone who can’t keep their hands off of you. Date someone who aches with the need to feel your skin on theirs.
4. Make sure he has goals, aspirations, dreams. Make sure he has a plan of some sort. If he doesn’t have any of those what are you guys supposed to talk about? What are your 2 AM conversations going to look like?
5. Find out his hobbies and interests and make sure they’re similar to yours. If you want to travel, date someone who will drop what they’re doing just to take you on a random adventure. You don’t want to be stuck with someone who’s idea of a good night is sitting on his futon with cheesy Dorito fingers while you watch him play video games.
6. If your brother doesn’t like him or if he rubs your sister the wrong way, trust their instinct. There’s probably a reason. I can guarantee you, darling, if you bring him home and we can see in his eyes that you light up his entire world than we will love him just as much as you do.
7. Baby, if he ever lays a finger on you, you fucking leave him. Don’t think twice, don’t look back and don’t you dare accept his apology two days later.
8. If you can’t trust him you shouldn’t be dating him. If you have to go through his phone to sleep better at night he’s not the one for you.
9. You’re going to fight, you’re going to argue, that is all part of a relationship. But baby, if he is contradicting everything you say solely for the sake of an argument, just walk away.
10. I’ve seen anger and rage in your grandfather’s eyes. I saw it everyday for 17 years, baby. If losing a football game makes him so mad as to not want to speak to you, than you are giving yourself to the wrong boy. He’s going to grow, and he’s going to get meaner, and he’s going to hurt you. Leave now.
11. If his laugh doesn’t claw it’s way into your memory and his smile doesn’t make you feel like the entire universe is right in front of you than you are wasting your time.
11 Dating Tips I Wish My Mother Would Have Told Me (via
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Idk man as a person who really isn’t touchy-feely, I can understand a boy who doesn’t constantly need to be touching you, especially in situations that are more nerve-wracking like meeting the parents.
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sex education at its finest
HHHHAHAHAAH WHAT
“so do tampons make girls feel like they’re having sex all the time?”
“It’s every month?”
“I thought it just lasted a couple years”
“It can go for 5 days in a row?!?!“
“Why don’t guys uteruses shed?”
*upon seeing a pad* “Why did someone flatten this tampon?”
“Why are tampons so little and pads are like mini diapers!”
“You mean you can’t buy one pack and be good for six months?”
“Why are they 7.69 for 10!!”
“Can’t you like fake being pregnant and stop it?”
crying laughing omigod
CAN’T YOU JUST FAKE BEING PREGNANG AND STOP IT
“tampons? i thought they were called tape-ons”
Sally Ride, the first American woman in space, was asked by NASA engineers if 100 tampons would be enough for her 7 day space flight
These engineers could calculate how much food, water, and oxygen would be needed to keep the astronauts alive but they had no clue how the female menstruation works
I want to cry and laugh.
this is funny
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10 Bible Verses to Honor Mom on Mother’s Day
1.) Proverbs 31:10-12 A wife of noble character who can find? She is worth far more than rubies. Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. She brings him good, not harm, all the days of her life. *
Children, give your mother examples of how she has blessed you by being the woman described in this passage.
2.) Proverbs 31:26-31 “She speaks with wisdom, and faithful instruction is on her tongue. She watches over the affairs of her household and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children arise and call her blessed; her husband also, and he praises her: Many woman do noble things, but you surpass them all.” Charm is deceptive , and beauty is fleeting; but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. Give her the reward she has earned, and let her works bring her praise at the city gate. *
Has your mother always been there for you? Supported you through life’s ups and downs? This is the verse to begin your tribute to her steadfastness.
3.) 2 Kings 4:30 But the child’s mother said, “As surely as the Lord lives and as you live, I will not leave you.” So he got up and followed her.*
Were you a difficult child recently or when you were younger. This verse is a great introduction to a heartfelt apology for your ‘foolish behavior’.
4.) Proverbs 10:1 A wise son brings joy to his father, but a foolish son grief to his mother.*
Tell your mother how she taught you empathy by modeling God’s love with her own gentle, giving spirit.
5.) Isaiah 66:13 “As a mother comforts her child, so I will comfort you; and you will be comforted over Jerusalem.” *
Would your mother be thrilled to know you are proud to be her daughter, and hope to be ‘just like her’? This verse says it all.
6.) Ezekiel 16:44 ‘Everyone who quotes proverbs will quote this one about you: “Like mother like daughter.”’ *
Let your mother know you are honored to be made by God through her.
7.) Psalm 139:13 for you created my inmost being; you knit me together in my mother’s womb.*
Let someone know they are honored as John honored Jesus by caring for his mother. This is the perfect verse for stepmother’s or grandmothers who share your home.
8.) John 19:26-27 When Jesus saw his mother there, and the disciple whom he loved standing nearby, he said his mother, “Dear woman, here is your son,” and to the disciple, “Here is your mother.” From that time on, this disciple took her into his home.” *
Is mom far away on this special day?
9.) Genesis 31:49b “May the Lord keep watch between you and me when we are away from each other.” *
Finally , a few verses that offer a blessing, just in time for Mother’s Day and your “World’s greatest Mom.”
10.) Numbers 6:24-26 “The Lord bless you and keep you; the Lord make his face to shine upon you and be gracious to you; the Lord turn his face toward you and give you peace.”*
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Getting back on the fit track!
So the 3rd of may officially marks the first day that i am getting back into a workout blast.i got to my heaviest weight, 62 kg and its cray. i love every part of me but im not happy with the way i feel, wanna bring it back down to 55kg in 24 weeks! that is a good 7kg.
Started yesterday with a 3km run and then 100 skips.
Today, i just decided to do a 30minute bollywood dance routine for cardio and to get the body moving! Ask me for the link if u want!
Its all about the daily decisions, what to eat, how to exercise and how much water to drink! got to cut back on teh bing too, too much milk liao. haha! im sure with runs(15km a week), 3 times a week dance routine and 1 rest day, i can get back into shape! and got to say no to suppers too!
I can do this! Please do support me by not offering me food too! Just a taste will be good but no chocolates for gifts already! haha thanks:)
#day2
stage 1 of friendship: what’s up ily so much!
stage 2 of friendship: oh god i hope i’m not being too clingy or bothering them
stage 3 of friendship: hey dickhead fucking answer me
Stage 4 of friendship: im outside your house and im coming in
Stage 5 of friendship: I’m already in your house when are you coming home
Stage 6 of Friendship: I’m having dinner with your parents. Are you going to join us
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